The perfect engagement ring is a token of your unique relationship, that’s why it’s essential you get the ring just right. But what size ring should you get, and what about band thickness? You may not know it, but these are serious considerations, as they can affect what size setting and stone is suitable to the ring, as well as the ring design. Before you choose an engagement ring, make sure you know everything there is to know about ring thickness and size.
The standard width for an engagement ring is about 2.5 millimeters. Wider designs run higher than 3 millimeters, while skinnier engagement rings are about 1.5 – 2 millimeters in thickness. There’s no perfect sizing but the width of the engagement ring will affect which settings and shanks you can choose from.
Lighter weight bands are lighter to wear, use less materials and smaller ring mounts. Less materials can mean better value for money, especially with more expensive materials.
If you’re looking to draw attention to the diamond then a skinny band will provide better contrast between the gemstone and the diamond, even if the stone itself is not particularly large.
For a finer finger, the skinny band is well suited. Similarly, a skinnier band on your engagement ring could be more comfortable to wear if you find larger bands irritating.
Shanks must match the band, so skinner shanks are weaker that those on regular or wider shaped rings.
While a skinny band will last a lifetime, regular polishing and refinishing could weaken the band over time.
On a regular sized finger a slimmer engagement ring band can look disproportionate.
If you like a ring that feels sturdy on the finger, a thicker band over 2.3 millimeters will feel great.
Want a large diamond on your ring, or just more smaller diamonds? Larger rings can accomodate bigger stones, and larger shanks, meaning more sparkle.
If you’re someone who uses their hands a lot a thicker engagement ring has more durability.
With thicker bands centre diamond has to be the right size and shape, as the thicker band is competing with the diamond when it draws the eye.
A thick band on a delicate finger can look oversized, make sure your ring is suitable for the size and shape of your finger.
The standard measurement for a ring is given in millimeters, and is the length of the inner circumference of the ring (the part that touched the finger). Sizing is theoretically standardised but can vary slightly from jeweller to jeweller, similar to fashion, where sizes are also standardised but there may be some variation in the fit.
The best way to get your finger measured is to head to the jeweller. A graduated metal wand with size markers called a mandrel is used to measure ring size on the finger. Getting measure by a jeweller is the most accurate way to get measured for a ring, but it might not always be possible if the ring is a surprise (like for an engagement).
It’s also possible to size your own ring from home. While this won’t help if you’re planning a surprise, it’s still a useful method. You can print off a paper ring size chart like this one and find your ring size from home.
Trying to find your partner’s ring size without her knowing? Try these few handy tips:
Literally, tie a length of string or ribbon around her finger. When she’s sleeping is a good time to do it. Keeping things incognito, or make it part of a game or joke so she doesn’t catch on to your intentions.
Your soon-to-be-fiance’s friends are an invaluable source of information. Of course you already know that, but when it comes to finding the right sized ring, they might be your strongest ally. Find out which ones can keep a secret, then ask them to do some investigating for you.
Next time you’re attending a dress up party, or maybe at the local markets, try out some gaudy costume jewellery. Just act like you’re goofing off and slip on a few rings to see what fits. Come back later if you can’t find a way to buy the winner on the spot.
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